The Pappas household in finding out first hand the definition of the "Sandwich" generation. We are into week 7 of taking care of my husband's mother as she recovers from knee replacement surgery. I would highly recommend Barron Homesley Orthopedic in Charlotte, NC. Their personal care and attention cannot be surpassed. We had Dr. Homesley's private number and were encouraged to call him whenever we had a question. My advice for anyone with aging parents is to plan ahead for illnesses and age related issues. Make strong relationships with doctors now if your parents live in your city or if not make plans to move closer if at all possible. Don't wait until an accident occurs or you get a call in the middle of the night. If they can't move closer to you make accommodations for them to have any necessary surgeries or hospital stays in your city not theirs. Long term care insurance is a good option to investigate. Assisted living facilities are not for everyone. Many have high monthly fees and several have run into financial difficulties during the recent downturn. Plan on spending quite a bit of time investigating options. Talk to your folks that are in similar situations and have knowledge of local facilities. Real Estate agents are excellent sources of information. Dickens-Mitchener has helped relocate with aging parents and knows the drill well. If we can help you deal with elder care issues let us know.

Catharine Pappas
Relocation Director
Dickens-Mitchener & Associates
M: 704.661.2402
cpappas@dickensmitchener.com